TL:DR
Don’t worry about “posing” for the camera. Action, movement, and real emotion are the best things to include in photos of couples who feel awkward. Don’t look at the lens; look at each other. Simple things like walking together, sharing a secret, or going for an “almost kiss” can make beautiful, natural moments. The most important thing is to hire a professional photographer who can make you feel at ease.
We have hosted hundreds of weddings as an event team, and we can tell you a little secret: “photogenic” isn’t a real thing.
You don’t have to be a model to take a wonderful picture. It’s about feeling positive, connecting with your partner, and being yourself. The main job of a professional photographer isn’t just to take pictures; it’s to make you feel comfortable.
Here are 11 easy, low-pressure ideas for your engagement session or wedding photos that are all about connecting with each other, not posing.
1. The “Not-So-Drunk” Walk
This method is a photographer’s secret weapon for getting people to talk. The prompt is straightforward: “Hold hands, walk toward me, and bump each other’s hips gently as you go.” You can’t help but laugh when you do this, and that real, silly moment is the best shot.
2. The Kiss on the Forehead
There is a reason why this pose is so popular. It’s sweet, personal, and best of all, you don’t have to look at the camera. Just close your eyes and pay attention to the now.
3. The Whisper
This is an excellent prompt to elicit a genuine response. One of you will have to whisper something in the other’s ear when the photographer tells you to. It might be an expression such as “I love you,” a description of what you had for breakfast, or a private joke known exclusively to the two of you. Every time, the smile or laugh that comes out is real.
4. “Look at Each Other”
Don’t think about the camera. Take a moment to look at your partner. That’s all. You don’t even have to grin. The “in-between” moment that is quiet and connected is often the strongest.
5. The Squeeze from Behind
Have one partner wrap their arms around the other from behind. It’s a comforting, secure-feeling pose that looks incredibly romantic and feels natural.
6. The “Almost Kiss”
Get as close as you possibly can… and then hold it. This creates a moment of beautiful, romantic tension. It’s often more powerful than the kiss itself.
7. A Little Spin
Movement is your best friend when you feel stiff. Hold one hand and have one partner do a simple twirl or spin. This is especially great for showing off a flowy dress (or a great suit!).
8. Pay attention to the little things.
Sometimes, the pictures that show the most love don’t show your faces at all. A close-up of your hands, showing off the new ring, or just your hands together, tells a beautiful story.
9. The Cozy Cuddle
Find a comfortable lounge or a staircase and settle in. Put your head on their shoulder and lean back into their chest. Just get comfortable like you would on the couch at home.
10. The Walk Away
This is a beautiful shot with little pressure. Just walk away from the photographer while holding hands. It makes the scene look cinematic and beautiful, and you don’t have to worry about your face.
11. Bring in a pet or a prop.
If you give your hands something to do, you’ll feel less awkward right away.
- Open a bottle of champagne.
- Make a sound by clinking two glasses together.
- Take your dog with you! Getting your pet to look at the camera will make you both laugh and ease your nerves.
The Real Secret: It’s Not You, It’s Your Photographer
In the end, the best way to get pictures you love is to hire a professional you can trust. A talented photographer knows how to give you these simple, fun prompts. They will make the place feel comfortable so you can be yourself.
This is a big reason why the Pelazzio Wedding Paradise Package includes an 8-hour professional photography session. Our photographers, whether they work for us or with us, expertly capture real, beautiful moments. They know our ballrooms, our grounds, and how to make our couples feel at ease and look their best.
So, just relax when it’s time for your pictures. Pay attention to your partner, enjoy the prompts, and trust the professional you hired to capture the magic.
